The quality of your life can often be measured by what you’re willing to risk asking for.

Living under the influence of the Illusion of Rejection will significantly impair your ability to do that.

In this short video I talk about why rejection is a compelling illusion, the consequences of succumbing to it, and the two simple principles that will help you break the spell.

As Wayne Gretzky said, “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”

I’ve probably missed more shots than you have taken, and I am WAY BETTER OFF for it.

Dissolving this illusion of rejection won’t spare you the vulnerability of approaching that woman or asking for that raise, but it will loosen up the part of you that gets shut down in those moments where Desire meets Opportunity.

So, take a short walk with me and let me know what shot you’re ready to take in the comments below.